get personal 人身攻擊 / take it personally 不要認為是針對人(你)
These criticisms should not be taken personally.
She's always grumpy in the mornings, so don't take it personally.
grumpy: 脾氣暴躁
As long as the criticism is honestly given and doesn't get personal, I can handle it.
I didn't invite you this time, but don't take it personally. It was a last-minute decision.
I didn't invite you this time, but don't take it personally. It was a last-minute decision.